Good men don’t want to date.
It’s that simple.
The men who would make good fathers…..
The types who aren’t degenerate thugs or drug addicts….
The men that would happily provide for a chaste women and her family….
These men are saying “fuck it.”
“But why though?”
This post-wall match maker makes some valid points.
“A husband is a certain type of animal.”
“My type was the CEO…I had to make some compromises”
“A husband has certain values.”
She comes so close to saying it, but never does.
“A husband is an altruistic workhorse.”
That’s what she wanted to say.
But the way I see it there are a few reasons why good men have opted out of the current dating market….
The Current State of the Sexual Marketplace
It is quite obvious what is going on.
The sexual market place is divided into three rungs on the female side and two rungs on the male side.
The female sexual market consists of:
Low-rung women (1-4s): These women are characterized by an array of characteristics that make them unattractive to men. Think obesity, single motherhood, feminist ideology, various piercings/tattoos, etc. Now back in the day some of these women may have been somewhat fit, but in our modern market these women are largely characterized by high BMIs and masculine personalities. A man never wants to make these types the mother of his children.
Mid tier women (5-7s): These were the women men once chased for the opportunity to propose and start a family. No more. Two fates await the mid-tier women. They are either snatched up early (high school/college) or they choose to ride the carousel and inevitably end up damaged. In the case of the latter (carousel rider) these women are pumped and dumped by Chad and stripped of their ability to pair bond. They will forever view the man who inevitably commits to them as the “runner up”. The baggage that comes with carousel riders is undesirable.
High-tier women (8-10s): The “dimes” is how these women are often referred to. These are the women most men find objectively attractive. These types have unlimited options, including attention from famous men/celebrities. The realm these women live in is that of social media. These types will promote their social media, cash in on simpenomics, and spend their time being courted by high-smv (famous) men.
The male sexual market consists of:
The bottom 90%: It could be a point of debate whether this figure is 80% or 90%. I say 90% as it appears to be headed that direction. Anyways, the bottom 90% consists of a great variety of men. Incels, normies, betas (providers), etc. The sad reality is these men are largely competing with each other for the low-tier women mentioned above.
The top 10%: These are the “billionaires” of the SMP. Whether it be from genetics, social proof, etc these men have access to a large variety of women. The pumpers and dumpers if you will. Most women compete for commitment from these men (Who ironically enough don’t want commitment….why would they abandon their wide array of options?)
This is the structure of our current sexual marketplace. So why are many men in the bottom 90% choosing to opt out? Seems like a frivolous question at this point, but since you asked….
Women With High Standards
There is no shortage of women with ever increasing standards. You heard it from the matchmaker above.
Women want the perfect man….
“Six feet tall.”
“Must be well traveled.”
“Must be a liberal and share unrealistic egalitarian beliefs.”
You get the point, the list goes on and on. The hypergamic demands of women know no end.
And as mentioned by the matchmaker, these standards are completely unrealistic. The portion of men that meet all of a woman’s “required criteria” for dating will easily be under 5% of the male population (even worldwide).
Anyone remember this video….
The asian woman in the video above at her peak represents a mid tier woman (5-6)…..even these types carry unrealistic standards for men.
So that is one reason men are choosing to opt out of this absurd dating market.
A high amount of effort yields a very low reward.
As I mentioned above….80-90% of men are competing for the bottom 80% of women. So inevitably some portion of the 90% of men will be able to attract a low-value woman.
One man on reddit lasted three months on the apps…..
“No bro….you just have to keep grinding….”
And men will keep investing their time trying to extract just a bit of value from this dating market.
Dating, texting, facetiming, sprucing up their social medias, taking the right supplements, dressing to the tee……
Yet they continue to come across women like this…
And so for men it becomes a question of logic.
Does the average man really want to put in all of this time and effort to reel in women like the one pictured above.
Of course he doesn’t.
It becomes much more rational to opt out…to watch porn, smoke weed, or play video games (Sad but true).
Modern dating present modern risks.
Men have been castrated.
So if a man doesn’t want to participate in the extremely cut throat nature of online dating he should move to the real world where saying “hello…you’re pretty.” is deemed as “rape culture”. (Honk honk)
Forget about the false allegations and Metoo for a moment though.
Ponder the man who overcomes the odds.
He self improves.
“Fuck you Mikey….I’m going to compete amongst the 80%, I am going to find me a wife.” (I admire a man with such resolve…very masculine)
And from all his efforts he manages to lockdown a solid 6 with a relatively low body count of 15.
This man has forgotten the outcome which characterize a majority of marriages in our modern times…..
So you see the dilemma.
#Metoo + divorce = risks not worth taking for many men.
“Damned if you do, damned if you don’t”…..Catch 22.
Men are getting red pilled on a mass scale.
Like it or not men are being awakened to the long-game.
Men are starting to realize that in a dating market characterized by unchained hypergamy, online dating, and long-term inherent risks….the rational choice is not to play.
This why I see a big future for sex robots. The morality of such a creation is up for debate as it could be devastating for birth rates and humanity.
However the sexual market is similar to our current financial market….bubble territory.
As more and more men become red pilled or decide to go MGTOW, this bubble will inevitably pop.
In my view this is still at least 8-10 years out. So in the mean time I see many more men choosing to opt out.
Comment below to share your thoughts, talk to you guys soon.